Let’s talk about porn! Hooray!
The UK government has decided to scrap plans to implement the porn age verification laws - which we think is good news, as it ironically leaves the people they are trying to protect more vulnerable to shadier porn. Please read this article in the Guardian by Girl on The Net which very eloquently explains why it was a bad idea in the first place.
So now we’re all happy that porn is fun and legal, let’s talk! You might be someone who already loves to watch porn and finds it a stimulating and exciting way to enhance your sex life – whether that’s solo or partnered. Or, you might be someone who would like to try watching porn but don’t know where to start.
We would like to share some of our favourite porn and erotic film sites. These are sites where you can find ethical paid for porn so you can be assured that everything involved is safe, legal and consensual.
The first for beautifully shot lush sexy films is the UK based FrolicMe erotic platform – not only will you find a delicious array of sexy films to turn you on, you’ll also be treated to audio porn for your aural sex, erotic fiction and a magazine full of sex positive and educational articles. Run by the fantastic Anna Richards, this site is not to be missed!
Bellesa films is also a site dedicated to your all-round erotic experience bringing erotica and sexy films to tantalise and tease. A Canadian joy of a site!
If you are partial to a bit of spanking erotica, take a look over at Pandora Blake’s, Dreams of Spanking for some lovely naughty and very cheeky UK scenes.
For your fix of rambunctious, sexy queer and inclusive porn look no further than the CrashPad series.
Whether you’re a seasoned porn enthusiast or curious excited porn newbie, we thoroughly recommend checking out these sites. Watching other people have sex is a very erotic and powerful experience – deeply ingrained in our psyche. It’s perfectly natural to be aroused watching erotic films, and you can use them to heighten your own sexual experiments. Just because you fantasise about it doesn’t mean you actually want to do it in real life (of course sometimes it can too!). Watching, reading, or listening to porn can be a great way to figure out some of your own desires and sexual needs.
If you're extremely busy in your daily life and sex has dwindled in your relationship, watching porn together is a wonderful way to reignite that passion and explore fantasies together. You may be surprised at just how quickly the flames are fanned as you slip into something more comfortable and press play…
Please enjoy porn responsibly and remember to support your artists and film makers by paying for your porn!
Here’s an even more comprehensive list over at Porn For Women.
Love Ruby x x
Header image is from a delicious film by FrolicMe called Fireside Treat.
